Missing Her, and Yet Another Good Reason For Safe Sex...

Found myself throwing a fit this morning, I mean work was fine and all, but I'm missing the hell out of my woman right now. As much as I am digging our relationship, I can't lie - the crazy thing that bothers me the most is the distance. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, you damn right it does, and distance makes that ass go crazy. I trust her, and her decisions, so I'm far from insecure, yet it just bothers me that I can't reach out and touch her, look at her, wake up next to her. Bugs me the fuck out.

I've been in long distance relationships before, and to be honest, only 2 had actually some type of good ending. My friends would wonder what attracted me to these types of things. I just don't think I will find my mate here in the 413 (sorry ladies) but it's true. I done had my shares of women, pigeons, chickens, you name it. Here the city is too small, everyone is your cousin, and so caught up in the status quo you forget that you are in a struggling city, so everyone is on the same level. What I found to be true, is that the women I meet outside of this city I tend to have a little more patience for, probobly because they will come with a whole different persona than the norm I deal with here. Those stories you read about those chickenheads and off the wall chicks are real, what I long for in a woman, I have found in the one I have now. Sorry, I don't do the comparison thing, so if any of my ex's read this, don't shoot me an email trying to get clues, just know I'm happy, and yall had nothing to do with it.

My homie is going through some bullshit that's been iggin' him for years, see he has 4 kids, and a baby's mother that he SHARES a house with, since 2000 maybe 1999 around this time (tax season) you would think with the EIC (Earned Income Credit - or free $ cause you have a kid) they should make the cut with 2 kids a piece right? Hell no, she got her damn sister claiming one of the kids, and she got two herself, which leaves him one. This one, by the way he just got custody from the middle of last year while he was temporarily out of the house. Conversation was all fucked up because dude straight told this woman two years ago and I quote:

"Why the fuck should someone else claim a child when they don't have any themselves? You can't sit there and tell me that someone else should make money off a child whose parents are right there in front of them. Do it again and I'm gone, that's fucked up period"

I was there for that, because I don't understand where someone would get off saying "oh don't worry, I'll just let you claim my kid so you can get an extra 2g's or whatever, and we all can eat" I'm sorry, but when you do shit like that, for one it's fucking trifling, I DON'T HAVE KIDS, let that one sit there so you can absorb it. But I know when you try to beat the system most of the time it's not to really get ahead it's because you're too lazy to handle shit yourself. Plain and simple, I love these folks to death, my boy mos def. Today, I just had to listen to the most ignorant argument ever, he brought it to her that he wanted to claim his firstborn (whom the sister is claiming) and his daughter (the one who he just got custody of - last year) she tells him that it wouldn't be possible because - and this is what she says:

"You won't be able to do it cause she has been claiming him for all these years, you can't just stop, if you try to claim him, then they are going to look at her for fraud, and that ain't going to happen, so I don't know what you're going to do, every year it's the same thing...you got 2 kids to claim why you tripping?"

he says

"Actually I have 4 kids to claim, 2 that should be shared with you and one by myself, that leaves 2 for you, if WE are the parents, then why the hell should someone keep on collecting if they aren't the parent?" "Since these kids been born between us, I haven't been able to collect right since, wtf???"

at this point I'm just silent, you can't justify shit at this point. Ladies, you know more than me that he's right. For those beating the system now, yall know that shit is fucked up. This dude has been unable to collect his taxes the right way cause his b.m. (whom they share a house mind you) lets other people collect on THEIR kids, yet she doesn't see why he don't want to put up with her bullshit, hell if my year has to start off with that in January, you really think it's looking good for the next 11 months? Now you are thinking, damn why listen in on them like that? Sorry but they wanted to have this shit out right in front of me, and no I didn't jump in cause I didn't want it to be 2 on 1 and on issues like that, you need someone else with kids there so they can be the moralistic one of the matter. What I see is dollar signs, and my boy has a legitimate beef, she lied about it to him, and to make matters worse gonna say some dumb shit like "oh if you try to collect they will see her for fraud" Wait, so doing what should've been done right in the first place is now out the window to protect yall who are fucking up and fucking me over at the same time??? Come on.

It's reasons like this g-dad said "When in doubt, pull the fuck out"

I'm out
Enjoy everyone dick riding my Pats now...